Third Culture Kid? You are not alone…

by | Sep 30, 2019 | Blog | 0 comments

Third Culture Kids are beautiful. They are complex. They have lives that astound, dismay, confound and inspire. Third Culture Kids are connectors, bridge-builders. They are also people pleasers, peace makers, community chasers. Third Culture Kids have no one personality profile, but they share so many experiences. The cumulative effect of their experiences creates a culture of its own, a kind of marginality in company – and good company at that! And at the same time, Third Culture-ness can make one feel so desperately alone, cut off, alienated.

But you know all this. You probably are one if you are reading this. So why reiterate it now?

Maybe you’ve forgotten. Maybe you’ve forgotten that you are complicated, paradoxical, ever-shifting in your position to the world around you. The fluidity and fuzziness of your identity has maybe rendered you speechless – unable to explain yourself to your Self, let alone to others.

What is your shape? We can take quizzes that advise of our body type, the clothes to wear, or our ideal career – but where can we go to figure out our Self?

Here.

I don’t know why you are on this page, browsing this website. I don’t know what curiosity, or hope, has brought you here.

But welcome.

You are welcome. Even if you aren’t sure who YOU is.

You are beautiful. You are complex. You have a life that astounds, dismays, confounds and inspires.

It’s okay if the shards of your Self are scattered, disparate, barely talking to each other. We can gather them in. You can nurture them into conversation, into harmony, into your own multi-faceted stained glass story.

Get in touch here, and let’s get started.

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